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Posted: July 27, 2009 01:26 pm  | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
      IRC Nickname: Jesseh Group: Guest Posts: 2670 Member No.: 297 Joined: March 8, 2008 Total Events Attended: 222    | Right, I'm BISEXUAL. Okay? Do i tell my mum? Or my friends first? I can't decide..  Only a few people know, and it's widely known irl that i'm straight. When i'm not, i dunno what to do. Halp please?
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Posted: July 27, 2009 01:47 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: ThisIsUnique Group: Ex-Member Posts: 1664 Member No.: 1417 Joined: October 30, 2008 Total Events Attended: 141 | I would say it to best friends first --------------------   | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 27, 2009 01:48 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: Sgtswordfish Group: Guest Posts: 1737 Member No.: 1758 Joined: March 9, 2009 Total Events Attended: 64 | if your parents are strong conservatives i wouldn't bother telling them also, depending on your age then you should mention your current sex appeal. if you're in high school, not reccommended, in college, as a man, not reccommended, after that. people don't care  that's all there is to it. asssociate yourself with people that understand you. --------------------  Goals 2011  | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 27, 2009 01:50 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| IRC Nickname: Jesseh Group: Guest Posts: 2670 Member No.: 297 Joined: March 8, 2008 Total Events Attended: 222 | Problem with telling my friends is they're all raging homophobes.. Like they think any girl that isn't straight fancies EVERY GIRL EVER.. When it's totally not true! So i'm stuck  ! -------------------- 17/6/08--> 12/9/08--> 29/11/08--> 5/1/09--> 2/3/09(Left)--> 19/7/09(Rejoin)--> 2/8/09
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Posted: July 27, 2009 02:18 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: Owennnn Group: Emeritus Posts: 1447 Member No.: 37 Joined: December 30, 2007 Total Events Attended: 55 | What I would do, is try and drop hints to your friends that you don't think bisexuality is such a big deal like, if you see two girls holding hands and someone makes a comment, just say something like "What's wrong with it really? Does it do anything to hurt you? No." or "It's not their fault they're into girls, I doubt they're doing it to be rebellious.". And if you do tell your friends say something along the lines of "Don't you want me to be happy?" If any of them answer no to that, then they're not you're friends. Worst comes to the worst, move to Brighton, I know loads of Bisexual and Gay people from Brighton, one of my best friends is bisexual, and all that made me think about was getting into a threesome with her  Anything you need, door is open. ~Owen PS. Bisexual? Hot. You need anything, PM. -------------------- | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 27, 2009 02:32 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: Dallar Group: Event Leader Posts: 1899 Member No.: 1957 Joined: July 16, 2009 Total Events Attended: 137 | Just stay true to what you are and don't give a fuck for peoples opinion. I've got 3 bisexual girlfriends and they are more popular than ever.. But then again, this is Denmark. If your friends abandon you because of your sexual orientation, then they don't deserve you. I know it's tough but you might experience them distancing from you in the beginning, but in the end they'll come back if they love you for who you are now. Just because you are attracted to the same sex doesn't mean you'll hump every living organism, and if they fail to understand that, you should give them a chance to grow up. --------------------  Click me if you need cheering up - I guarantee happiness will blossom | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 27, 2009 05:01 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: Havochaha Group: Ex-Member Posts: 2257 Member No.: 106 Joined: January 5, 2008 Total Events Attended: 113 | Make a bi porn video with some really hot actors and show it to your parents and friends. Theyll be too turned on to give a shit. -------------------- Havochaha Perm Banned Oct 1st 2009 Havochaha Unbanned February 13th 2011  http://www.erepublik.com/en/referrer/Omar+Dandan How to Make 10m an Hour | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 27, 2009 05:03 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| IRC Nickname: BPN Group: Ex-Member Posts: 246 Member No.: 244 Joined: February 17, 2008 Total Events Attended: 35 | Dont tell anyone, go into Bi porn, show them ur bank account. and they'll accept u! Anyways, Ill start with family. those are people who will MOST LIKELY accept it, if they do it gives u more confidence to tell anyone else. And if people dont accept it, then i guess they're not worth it -------------------- No WG without a Retard,, Proud rejoining since 07^ Store manjuice in a cup, a jar is prefered. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 27, 2009 05:06 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: bto Group: Emeritus Posts: 3815 Member No.: 196 Joined: February 3, 2008 Total Events Attended: 332 | Doubt your friends would ditch just because you're bi. As for your parents, you don't really need to tell  . -------------------- bto  Ex-WG Warlord  "It is our direction, not our intentions, that lead us to our destinations." | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 27, 2009 05:06 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| IRC Nickname: KKs69 Group: Guest Posts: 2 Member No.: 1975 Joined: July 26, 2009 Total Events Attended: 0 | Do you have a particular NEED to let your friends and family know about this? I wouldn't bother pressing this issue with people until a situation comes up where they're going to know about it anyways, your sexuality shouldn't be a concern to them, and you shouldn't worry about bringing it up just yet. The truth about a female bisexual they're somewhat more common than you'd think. Depending on your age group and your geographic location, people will be more understanding of your sexuality as you grow up. I know a great girl who is bisexual (she's currently dating one of my best friends, male) and nobody has any problem with her. If you're fairly young (junior in high school or younger, we'll say) you will probably recieve some shit for your views. but the two things most important to remember about that is this: 1. Everyone gets shit in high school. 2. High school was/isn't/won't ever be that important. bottom line, if this is how you truly feel, then you shouldn't concern yourself with how everyone feels about it, but at the same time, there isn't a real need to flaunt the issue if you think it will cause strife at this point in your life. Nice to meet you by the way! --------------------  | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 27, 2009 05:17 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| IRC Nickname: Group: Banned Posts: 2447 Member No.: 114 Joined: January 8, 2008 Total Events Attended: 149 | Okay, after all the advice from every one else... Here's my take on it. You've got your friends, who are mostly homophobic. (retards) Parents... Depends on how conservative they are, your choice there. Most of the guys... Will think it's hot and want to have a threesome with you and another girl. Of course, they also think it will be the two girls paying most of the attention to him... (idiots) Honestly? Keep it quiet for a while. Play off the calm, so what about gay/lesbians? (like what Owen said) It's no big deal. Eventually, your friends won't really give a shit if they see you kissing a girl. -------------------- | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 27, 2009 05:24 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: Colin Group: Ex-Member Posts: 2039 Member No.: 68 Joined: December 31, 2007 Total Events Attended: 69 |
This. Then send me the link. --------------------   Proud WG member from January 2006 - Fall 2009 | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 27, 2009 05:33 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: ka pineapple Group: Ex-Member Posts: 343 Member No.: 1277 Joined: August 15, 2008 Total Events Attended: 44 | Just be true to yourself. Tell your closest friends first as usually its easier for friends to accept who you are regardless . Friends are generally easier to tell anything than parents Tell your parents aswell, they should love you regardless no matter what your sexual orientation or if you'd prefer you can stay in the closet. --------------------  | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 27, 2009 05:36 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| IRC Nickname: Jesseh Group: Guest Posts: 2670 Member No.: 297 Joined: March 8, 2008 Total Events Attended: 222 | Thanks everyone.  This has helped.I don't want to stay in the closet, i'll tell my parents, and then just let my friends ignore it. As i know they shouldn't dis-own me, but i think they will. -------------------- 17/6/08--> 12/9/08--> 29/11/08--> 5/1/09--> 2/3/09(Left)--> 19/7/09(Rejoin)--> 2/8/09
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Posted: July 27, 2009 05:46 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: Vephy Group: Elite Guardian Posts: 6186 Member No.: 813 Joined: June 10, 2008 Total Events Attended: 478 | Just seduce all your friends. Instant win. --------------------   | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 27, 2009 05:47 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| IRC Nickname: ThisIsUnique Group: Ex-Member Posts: 1664 Member No.: 1417 Joined: October 30, 2008 Total Events Attended: 141 | I don't really care about it, if i knew some girl irl who was bi i would think it's hot but i wouldn't care much -------------------- | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 28, 2009 01:57 am | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: Lefty Group: Emeritus Posts: 3340 Member No.: 1055 Joined: June 30, 2008 Total Events Attended: 211 | Slowly hint to your parents, and then your friends. When you know that there isn't much of a problem, finally state that you are bi, and make sure that you can somewhat discuss it with them; especially your friends. --------------------      | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 28, 2009 02:27 am | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: Kurt Cobain Group: Guest Posts: 329 Member No.: 1619 Joined: January 7, 2009 Total Events Attended: 2 |
I lol'd.  OT: I'd say the best advice so far has been from Bassism and Tabs.
+1, if your friends are too self centered to not care about the people around them, then why would you consider them your friends when they don't care about you enough to want you to be happy? --------------------  Thanks Sam for an awesome job and an awesome wait! 
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Posted: July 28, 2009 02:41 am | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: Group: Banned Posts: 2 Member No.: 1405 Joined: October 26, 2008 Total Events Attended: 0 |
Well you actually told WG first  The question is if you REALLY want to tell someone. In this day and age, bisexuality is still a bit on edge with some people, and I agree with Tabs when she says the best idea is to keep it quiet. Being female and bi is pretty much a gift... you have the freedom of choice for pretty much anyone and hell, look at the majority of male replies to this topic... it's not like us lads think it's a bad thing If you find a boy you like, you've pretty much no need to worry because telling him you're bi would 98% of the time make things better between you, and if it was a girl you'd probably be able to make the decision yourself if to trust her with that and with luck, maybe she'll be into it in return. Trust your judgement If you really want to tell someone, between a parent and a homophobic group of friends, I'd say parent . Most of the time in matters like this mums are pretty understanding (That's down to your opinion though) and parents I'd say are the first choice in sexuality-related matters, although slightly harder to talk to. If you're going for a friend, make sure it's one of your closest and get a general idea of their opinion on the matter for a start. It's not something you want to let ruin a friendship, but a majority of the time, a good friend won't Best of luck  --------------------   | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 28, 2009 03:00 am | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: Mickey Group: Emeritus Posts: 5305 Member No.: 48 Joined: December 30, 2007 Total Events Attended: 282 | Tell them straight, you didn't fancy them before they found out, so nothing has changed. Besides, there's nothing wrong with a little girl on girl action. --------------------   | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 28, 2009 03:45 am | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| IRC Nickname: Sum41xx Group: Emeritus Posts: 630 Member No.: 102 Joined: January 3, 2008 Total Events Attended: 0 | Just never be afraid of what you are. Your real friends should understand. --------------------   Proud WG member since December 2003 | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 28, 2009 07:54 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| IRC Nickname: Stokenut Group: Guest Posts: 2062 Member No.: 805 Joined: June 10, 2008 Total Events Attended: 112 | Pshh, I've known for months. It's about time you told some of them so you can be yourself. Your real friends won't care. I certainly don't. (19:47:41) Jessica ! :-O 11/16: i think we should do a pick up contest.. (19:47:44) Jessica ! :-O 11/16: sort of thing (19:47:52) Jessica ! :-O 11/16: would be funneh (19:48:02) [DI]Stokenut[138]: at the zoo (19:48:05) [DI]Stokenut[138]: pick up what a hippo? (19:48:14) Jessica ! :-O 11/16: Yeah i'm sure we could get some muff (19:48:19) Jessica ! :-O 11/16: (19:48:28) [DI]Stokenut[138]: You just want me to get you some muff <3 -------------------- Over 6 years of history and friendship, deleted over a difference in an opinion. --- Challenge any creationist to a debate. They'll run away and aggressively accuse you of "attacking" them and their "beliefs". I'm sorry, please, keep teaching our kids that they'll burn in hell if they don't believe. Mutilate their genitals against their will while you're at it. Keep influencing politics and holding back vital scientific research. I'll just keep my mouth shut to "respect" your "beliefs". | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 28, 2009 09:03 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: Jenny Group: Emeritus Posts: 1967 Member No.: 19 Joined: December 29, 2007 Total Events Attended: 56 | At this time in your life it feels like you need to tell people, but unless it becomes an issue its really no ones business but your own. Take it from me don't borrow trouble, it will find you out soon enough in life. --------------------   | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 28, 2009 09:40 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: Bam Group: Emeritus Posts: 2762 Member No.: 131 Joined: January 20, 2008 Total Events Attended: 111 | why should you tell it to any1?....don't keep it secret but don't tell it to every1 either. Just keep it cool, it's not a biggie....it's not really their business, like jenny said. --------------------   | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Posted: July 28, 2009 10:36 pm | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
 IRC Nickname: His Lordship Group: Founder Posts: 6029 Member No.: 1 Joined: December 26, 2007 Total Events Attended: 129 | You know, a lot of guys find bi girls to be a big turn on. --------------------  | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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