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Posted: August 11, 2009 05:26 pmTop
   
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Hey guys, I'm raging..

A new couple has just moved into the house next to ours and we thought it'll be fine.. But we were too fast in our decision..

Now we can't play music without having that skanky bitch running over at our house 2 times a day complaining about our music. Now that's not much of a problem tbh..

The problem is that today she came over to tell me that my mum didn't deserve my kind of personality and I was shitting all over her by playing music when she came home from work.

"Your mum is working hard for you to live like you do, with your computer, your tv etc.. How do you pay your respect to her? She does not deserve having you around when she comes home from work and wants her piece... Take this into consideration.. Think of your mum, she does not deserve this.. and you know it!"

I was about punching her nosebone to pieces.. What the fuck gives the cunt right to talk about my family when she doesn't know what the fuck she is talking about?? My mum wasn't even at home!!

Holy shit I am angry..

Please dicuss and tell me what you would have done.. I feel like retaliating somehow, but can't come of anything..
 
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call her a stupid fuck and she doesnt know what the fuck shes talking about
 
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Posted: August 11, 2009 05:44 pmTop
   
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Ignore her. If she comes over to your house, turn your music up even louder.
 
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Posted: August 11, 2009 05:54 pmTop
   
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I would say
Mind your own busness, go unpack or something *turns up music really loud*

 
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Posted: August 11, 2009 05:58 pmTop
   
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Posted: August 11, 2009 05:59 pmTop
   


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I would start playing my music even louder.

Just out of spite.
 
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Posted: August 11, 2009 06:26 pmTop
   
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There's no reason why she wud interfere with ur things. Do ur things like u used to do them, don't make that lady chance ur natural habitat #
 
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Posted: August 11, 2009 06:45 pmTop
   
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Play your music as normal, if she comes round again just say somethign civil like:

"I'm sorry, could you please mind your own business?" Then close the door

If she gets pissy or angry just insist that it isnt that loud and that shes mistaken.

If she STILL continues, will probably threaten to phone the police, then just something like "The police will side with me, it is at a normal level - would you please refrain from intruding on my family's property"

then if theres any more time maybe a falcon punch/kick.
 
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Posted: August 11, 2009 06:55 pmTop
   
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Honestly? A tinfoil pie-pan filled with whipped-cream right in the kisser next time she came to the door. It might be more worthwhile though if you talk it over with your mom and pay your neighbors a visit defining the meaning of personal space; I can't imagine your mom would be too thrilled about the neighbor's wife giving you crap about this.
 
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Posted: August 11, 2009 07:08 pmTop
   
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With someone bitchy as that sounds like she would run to the police if it is too loud. I'd keep it down just in case (not stupidly low though, its your house). Did you stand up for yourself when she came round insulting you? You should've put her in her place. Be sure to complain if she does anything that annoys you. Even though you're pissed off, keep your head above water.
 
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Posted: August 11, 2009 07:16 pmTop
   
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DUDE FUCK THAT. I'd be pissed too. I've never had anyone complain about my house, but the neighbors live a good 200 ft. away. And sometimes during the year you can hear music coming from the frats down all the way down the road.

IF she calls the cops, it shouldn't be a big deal unless the cops are also douches. I've had cops break up stuff at my friends' places and they always seem to have the "*sigh* not another one of these" attitudes and don't really take it too seriously.

Try not to hit her, try not to completely go apeshit on her, but I'd def be pissed with someone like that.
 
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Posted: August 11, 2009 07:20 pmTop
   
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First off tell her she has no business telling you how to live in your house so you should play your music at whatever volume you were playing it before. Second tell her that she has no idea what she's talking about when it comes to how it affects your mother.

When she comes over again just politely tell her to leave.
 
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Posted: August 11, 2009 08:05 pmTop
   
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Be polite and tell her to never come near you again.
 
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Posted: August 11, 2009 10:00 pmTop
   
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I had a neighbor who lived downstairs who used to complain that he could hear me typing on my computer, so I used to turn my music up to drown out my typing, he didn't enjoy that.
 
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Posted: August 11, 2009 10:27 pmTop
   
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The Law in the UK states you could be as loud as you want until 11PM at night i believe. So i'd kindly tell her: "None of your damn business, now get off my property." Game.
 
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Posted: August 11, 2009 11:16 pmTop
   
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Well, just show yourself to be above her, and just react appropriately, but politely. As long as your music isn't obnoxiously loud, make it clear she has no right interfering in your life and business in your own household.

If you pump up the volume (so to speak...) just to spite her, well, don't tongue.gif . As annoying as she sounds, who knows, there may be something in her own personal life causing her foul mood. Never know.
 
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Posted: August 11, 2009 11:27 pmTop
   
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Well....first of all, the neighbor doesn't really have the right to come over and act like she knows how your mom feels about you or your music. However, having said that, the fact that you are sooooo angry that you want to retaliate makes me wonder if you are thinking that maybe there is some truth to what she is saying and you don't want to think about that.

The lady is clearly out of line, but ask yourself why this is making you angry beyond what a reasonable response is. Or, better yet, ask your mom if your music bothers her or not, and if not, you will certainly know how to respond the next time.
 
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Posted: August 12, 2009 12:11 amTop
   
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Posted: August 12, 2009 12:54 amTop
   
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Better yet, next time she comes over tape it somehow and then call the cops on HER for harassment.

But still liking the cream-pie, srsly.
 
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Posted: August 12, 2009 01:52 amTop
   
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If you think its really excessive in the way she handles herself, I'd probably wear a wire or something next time she comes over to say shit about me and how I'm "disrespecting my mom." You might be able to get enough out of it to file a harassment suit just to shut her up.

If you don't want to go through that, crank the amps to 11 and just start wailing. It doesn't even have to sound melodic or anything, but it'd probably be hilarious to see her flip out.
 
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Posted: August 12, 2009 02:44 amTop
   
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Tbh if it was me id rage in her face the second she said it. i mean what the fuck does she know about you and your mum she just moved in ffs and even if she'd been there for a long time as a neighbour she doesnt know what goes on behind closed doors all she can judge you on is your materials not the actual person you are.

Oh and ask her if she is one of those stupid hardcore christians who believe in rubbish like all gays should burn in hell and that abusing their wifes and children is right and will "earn" them a place in heaven.
 
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Posted: August 12, 2009 04:34 amTop
   
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Talk to your mother and explain that this lady is making you feel very uncomfortable in your own house. Ask her to please speak to the lady to not come over while you are home alone and that you feel it is inappropriate. Handle it more like an adult would and you will get better results.

Don't play your music excess loud, but within a normal range of enjoyment. Call the police and ask what the rules are about it. Then when your away make sure to leave it on all the time for the animals in your house. Maybe they should love rap. . .

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p.s. I have no neighbors close, but their cows come to visit us.
 
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Posted: August 12, 2009 04:38 amTop
   
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Oh and ask her if she is one of those stupid hardcore christians who believe in rubbish like all gays should burn in hell and that abusing their wifes and children is right and will "earn" them a place in heaven.

Sorry for double post.

I find this extremely offensive to me. I am a Christian. That is all I will say.
 
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Posted: August 13, 2009 12:49 amTop
   
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QUOTE (rachellove9 @ August 11, 2009 11:38 pm)
QUOTE (Lil Rewind @ August 11, 2009 09:44 pm)
Oh and ask her if she is one of those stupid hardcore christians who believe in rubbish like all gays should burn in hell and that abusing their wifes and children is right and will "earn" them a place in heaven.

Sorry for double post.

I find this extremely offensive to me. I am a Christian. That is all I will say.

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Posted: August 13, 2009 01:16 amTop
   


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QUOTE (txtawkin @ August 13, 2009 12:49 am)
QUOTE (rachellove9 @ August 11, 2009 11:38 pm)
QUOTE (Lil Rewind @ August 11, 2009 09:44 pm)
Oh and ask her if she is one of those stupid hardcore christians who believe in rubbish like all gays should burn in hell and that abusing their wifes and children is right and will "earn" them a place in heaven.

Sorry for double post.

I find this extremely offensive to me. I am a Christian. That is all I will say.

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+2 Not because I am a hardcore christian that says everyone will burn in hell. But because you're stereotyping which is stupid and immature in itself.

Now on to the subject. I agree with what most people are saying. Although what really caught my attention was the individual that said maybe she's got something wrong in her life. Which is not a maybe, she definitely does have some hang ups in her life.

If your the kind of person that likes setting people straight I would honestly confront her. This would be my exact quoted argument
"Hey you know what? If you have a problem with my music tell me, but don't ramble on and twist your verbal psychology on me trying to make me feel bad about myself for playing my music. And don't even dare try and tell me how my family is and should be run. It's really apparent that you have hang ups in your life and your venting them out on me for the most ridiculous reasons. If you thing my family is bad you should go ask your husband (or whoever she is with) how he feels about having a psycho bitch go and scream at the next door neighbors son. Maybe you'll have a rude awakening. Now leave me alone. I'll lower the music, but the next time you come here to give me shit about my music you better not even dare talk about my family or else I'm going to file harassment charges. Are we clear?"

I would not let her get a word in. If she would even dare to start talking over me I'd shut the door in her face.
 
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