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Posted: September 12, 2009 08:04 amTop
   
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Alright so lately me and some friends have been going out to hookah bars and just hanging out at places, and it occurred to me, there are a fuck ton of hot girls out there.(I no rite)
Honestly, I am really freaking shy but I'm trying to be more out going and meeting new people, but for the love of god, around hot girls that I don't no, I cant think of anything to say to them to get a conversation started.

Like say a girl is eyeing you, what would you do if you are sitting next to them and want to walk up to the girl to start talking with her, especially if she is with friends and what not.... Honestly, this is my weakest point and I'm kinda self conscious about myself and meeting new people as it is. I just don't like making a fool out of myself i guess, even if I have nothing to loose.

Any personal help?
 
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Posted: September 12, 2009 08:13 amTop
   
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Personally plan on working the same thing during college.

But I would assume that if you notice a girl eyeing you, the best course of action isn't to throw down some pick up lines, but to just be casual.

Walk up and just say "Hi." if you've got nothing else to say. Be a normal person and just use normal conversation pieces, "How are you?" "You enjoying your night?" "Mind if I take a seat?"

Those are all harmless and don't make you look like a douche.

The thing is you've got to be prepared to be rejected. You've also got to accept and realize that nobody is paying more attention to you, than you are.

Those are the two things I struggle with personally. When I want to talk to someone, I feel like everyone is watching me and that if I fuck up, they'll all talk about it in their little groups. Fact of the matter is, they're enjoying their time rather than paying any attention to you.
 
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Posted: September 12, 2009 08:16 amTop
   
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walk upto her and tell her how u pwned this noob with ur dds spec the other day and she'll be like ohmy.gif and you'll be like hash.png n ye
 
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Posted: September 12, 2009 11:26 amTop
   
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Can't really teach it.

All you have to do is suck it up, stop being so scared, and go for it. What's the worst that can happen? She says no, you say, "Okay, no problem" and you move on.

The end.
 
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Posted: September 12, 2009 12:20 pmTop
   
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Make eye contact and smile, if she looks at you, titlt your head to the right/left a bit, as if yto say "you know you want me, come and get me". If she's interested, she'll come to you.

Or you could try start a conversation with her, but don't start with a cheap pick up line. Start by saying something like "Hey.. I was wondering if I could have your opinion on bla bla bla."

You really want to make a good first impression if you're going to get her to say yes to your request, so be confident, make her think that you're comfortable with yourself and she will probably start to become interested.

No matter what you do, don't use cheap pick-up lines, it just makes you come across as another guy who is no different from the rest.
 
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Posted: September 12, 2009 04:53 pmTop
   
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QUOTE (Maddness990 @ September 12, 2009 01:20 pm)
if she looks at you, titlt your head to the right/left a bit

My dog does that blink.gif
 
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[05:42] <+WG_Keanu> I think I got a semi just looking at the pic
[05:42] <%kat> same

Posted: September 12, 2009 05:45 pmTop
   
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The best person to ask is a girl, lol. So here it is:

Sometimes pick up lines work well, but only if they are outrageous and make you laugh and the guy knows that when he says them. Most of the time its better if the guy walks up, asks if the seat next to you is taken, sits and tries to start a normal conversation with you. If the girl is interested, she will talk. If in a few minutes it's obvious that she doesn't want to talk, wish her a nice evening and leave the seat. sleep.gif
 
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Posted: September 12, 2009 08:17 pmTop
   


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Alrighty. First things first.. NEVER use "Pick up lines" Even the name sounds corny and you'll probably just be flat out rejected.

That's not a bad thing. I have learned that if your going to go and approach girls, learn to handle rejection. It's nothing personal, they just aren't interested. Don't get sensitive and think "Omg I must be ugly" or something.

The best things to do are mentioned above.

Be CASUAL. Don't try to impress. Just approach her, ask her things like:

"Hey, how's your night going"

"What's up, mind if I take a seat?"

Also, girls love it when you complement there looks, because chances are they take about an hour or two just to get ready to go out well guys take about 15 minutes (Rofl XD) So pickup on that, things like "You look really good tonight" or "I love that ____". Don't say you look HOT or something stupid sounding like that.

Lastly, because you mentioned your shy, is CONFIDENCE. Seriously, out of all the girls I know every single one says something really attractive in a guy is confindence.

This will be hard because you mentioned your shy but ALWAYS look her in the eye's when your talking to her, never look down to the ground or away when your talking, it literally puts "IM SHY" On your forehead.


 
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Posted: September 13, 2009 02:41 amTop
   
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Casually ask her, "Hey. I lost my virginity. Can I have yours?"
 
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Posted: September 13, 2009 02:43 amTop
   
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QUOTE (Chaddaman124 @ September 12, 2009 09:17 pm)
Lastly, because you mentioned your shy, is CONFIDENCE. Seriously, out of all the girls I know every single one says something really attractive in a guy is confindence.

Simply put, you're fucked.
 
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[05:42] <+WG_Keanu> I think I got a semi just looking at the pic
[05:42] <%kat> same

Posted: September 13, 2009 03:07 amTop
   


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Posted: September 13, 2009 03:16 amTop
   
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QUOTE (Pazenon @ September 12, 2009 09:41 pm)
Casually ask her, "Hey. I lost my virginity. Can I have yours?"

^^hahaha. Now that one would have gotten points for making me laugh! biggrin.gif
 
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Posted: September 13, 2009 04:07 amTop
   
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As long as you don't sound like you've worked up a routine, you should be fine.

There's no good pick-up line that really works, but there are a few good openers. Depends on the girl and the environment. You just have to be natural and make sure she doesn't think you've planned a conversation.
 
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Posted: September 13, 2009 04:12 amTop
   
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QUOTE (His Lordship @ September 13, 2009 04:07 am)
As long as you don't sound like you've worked up a routine, you should be fine.

There's no good pick-up line that really works, but there are a few good openers. Depends on the girl and the environment. You just have to be natural and make sure she doesn't think you've planned a conversation.

wtb good openers lul
 
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Posted: September 13, 2009 07:00 amTop
   
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Jesus... Eugene said openers and immediately I translated the whole context of talking to a girl into a rogue dps rotation. I need to sleep...
 
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Posted: September 13, 2009 11:09 amTop
   
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QUOTE (WG_Keanu @ September 12, 2009 04:53 pm)
QUOTE (Maddness990 @ September 12, 2009 01:20 pm)
if she looks at you, titlt your head to the right/left a bit

My dog does that blink.gif

It works a treat on chicks wink.gif
 
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