That's kind of what i hate about the state of PvP in WoW at the moment. The realms that are regarded as the popular PvP realms are infact just the PvP communities who RBG/Arena/Duel out at elwynn or durotar 24/7 With the ratios being vastly outnumbered. WTB some good ol' fashioned competitive WPvP. I remember one of the main things that caught me eye when my friend introduced me to WoW, he was with 2 rogues mates just camping the gate at ashenvale (contested territory from the horde sided barrens) just ganking all day forming into large scale wars. I want that back 
Well hopefully in MoP, we may see some action. Flying mounts are becoming 90, so levelling could be interesting, esp. on a populated realm.
But ya, My server is 75% alliance and 25% Horde, and by the time we get near sw, there are about 2 alliance raid defences

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