Its not our fault were the only people with a sense of humor
You see, that's just it mate. You're looking after your own interests but I have to look after everyone. Not everyone has this sense of humour and they are getting annoyed, and since we're all in this together, what I have been asking for is for you to responsibly scale back to make people feel less unhappy.
I'll quote what I sent in PM to Kevin:
How is it being abused?1. It is being over-used by the same people who are forming a "HoR Unit", which is bad for the community.
2. It is the wrong thing for clan members to be spending their energy and involvement on when we're in a period of regrowth
Why does it need to be controlled?For the reasons above. For an Emeritus member like yourself and Keith it's not bad at all, but for the active members it is distracting them too much from their clan duties and it's also confusing to new members who have no idea why everyone is always posting inside jokes (eg about trains) which excludes them from the fun.
How is it annoying?Because of the reasons above. These three questions are really the same question rephrased. If I don't regulate it now, it will lead to worse problems later.
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Just let down your defenses for a moment and reflect with honesty - I'm being pretty reasonable in asking you to slow down.
I am talking through the issue calmly with you and explaining all my thoughts, and listening to your side.
I have not deleted the forum and I am prepared to give certain members their posting rights back after we've resolved the problem.
It
is a sacrifice on your part. I realise that there is less fun for you if I'm restricting your posting.
But it is a price that must be paid so that a greater good can be achieved.
I am asking for your selflessness, that you may suffer a tiny bit so that the community at large can benefit.