KatAesthetik

Oh gosh yeah there's a lot more to it than I thought. Thankfully she's more on top of all this than I am (PvM event grind and all that) so i might be following pandas lead it sounds 🤣 We for sure have a color scheme that we seem to be leaning towards which is blue (her favorite color) with yellow accents (my favorite) and we're hoping to get a venue that does both food and bar I think. As cheesy as it sounds though I just want her to be happy with it
 
 
 
I'm planning on taking it bit by bit,  def starting with a venue since they could for sure cut out some extra work on our end. All in all I think we're shooting for maybe like 5k if we can get away with that since my soon wife just had to get a new car lol.  we've been together for long enough that we can get over any hurdles leading to or day of and laugh it off in the end.
 
Who knows maybe I can drag her on osrs for a clan celebration lol
 

Congratulations! To make it easier I opted to leave it all to the wife to be 🤣 
 
For real though, try to take things in your stride a little bit as there will be bumps. That applies to planning and to any mishaps on the day.
 
Just remember you’re getting married because you love one another and it’s a celebration of that. It doesn’t need to be perfect so long as you both have a good time and you end up wedded! 
 
In more practical terms I think we found having a venue which had good offers for suppliers helped ease a lot of the load but clearly that isn’t the direction a lot of people like to take, which is fair enough. 
 
I would say it makes more sense to tackle certain sections in order where possible. 

oh shit bud  What are your so far plans tho and wishes for how it to be? 
Lots of stuff to cover - book church/priest?, venue? food - make or company? Cake tastings and choosing, clothes and clothes for potential others if setup? drinks/bar? hotel? car to and from?

No experience here, but congratulations! 

I saw your name and immediately thought about that documentary, interesting to see other people who know about it!

going well! gonna focus cmb for the foreseeable future to get it up to 95 at least, good idea to update it though, I didn't even think of that

Thanks for the welcome! My previous group was actually in World of Warcraft, we were a mythic dungeon group but as of the recent expansions I decided to stop playing (still hang out with that group though :D)